Don't mind.

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Well…I saw Kank today and must admit I felt it. Yeah I didn’t enjoy it, I felt it. It’s definitely closer to reality than any of Karan’s movies. And It did make me think. Very well directed I must say taking into account the minor intricacies of human emotions. The characters of Dev and Maya beg to be empathized with. And I did.
It’s really pretty funny how our mind works. It’s not back and white. There’s no right or wrong. Sometimes the right is wrong and sometimes all we wanna do is something we know is wrong. It’s very easy to judge and say someone’s wrong. But are they really? Is it their fault that we are made this way? So confused. So unsure. So mixed up. Yes we are. What do we do when there’s that epic battle between your mind and your heart? Who should you listen to?
What do you do when it’s not working out? What do u do when you are so very different?
What role does love play in the scheme of things? What is it worth? Is it worth your marriage? Is it worth your career? Is it worth your life? Where does it stand in today’s world? Does it exist? What do you do when you are in love? Do you think? Do you measure it up to everything around you? Are we allowed to love? Wish it was simple. Wish you could find the person of you dreams and stay happily ever after…. But…but, it’s not. Who do you love? Is it the body or is it the soul? If it’s the soul then are we supposed to love someone when they have changed completely and are no where close to who they were? If the soul still exists can we love somebody else after they have gone? If there’s just one love how do people love somebody else after one’s gone? If there’s more than one love then why is it not acceptable if a married person falls in love? How do you know if u love someone? How do u know someone loves you? How much will they have to love you for you to fall in love with them, if you don’t already?
Basically what the hell is love? It’s not like two people in love no problems between them at all? So how is it different from all those arranged marriages?
The mind. The human mind. That incomprehensibly incomprehensible place.
PS: I do not condone infidelity at all.

Comments

Advitiya said…
thought provoking writing...what is love...yeah man...you missed a debate on my blog while you were lost..

Love; who can define it? One can only experience it I guess... it is a weird feeling though
Welcome back anyway dude...missed ya
2:53 PM
Chaitanya said…
AH... long time... welcome back to the world :p
12:48 PM
BD said…
Well, Pranay! You ask more questions than KJ himself.
8:14 AM
Pranay said…
well thanks for dropping by all u guys...but no one seems to answer any of my questions...hmmm..pretty difficult huh...and welcome to this side of the blogging world vibhor. if you want no problems in ur marriage please don't watch KANK.
4:01 AM
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